I found this article about branding. I thought it was interesting because kids (and many adults!) don't think about the perceptions they are giving to others about themselves. When I look at pictures posted on line I often wonder, "What were they thinking?"
As I work to put together a presentation for kids I am keeping these ideas in mind.
5 Keys to Building Your Personal Brand
Megan Dalla-Camina
Posted: 05/20/2014 12:37 pm EDT Updated: 07/20/2014 5:59 am EDT
I talk about personal branding a lot and I have a whole chapter in my book dedicated to it,
because it matters. As we know, many of us think that if we just keep our head down and do
the work, that all else will take care of itself regarding our careers. But as many of us also
know, that's often just not true.
One of the key aspects of our career that really matters is your personal brand -- which is
essentially how you choose to present yourself. Everyone has one. Many people don't know
what their personal brand says about them; and few do something positive to build it,
enhance it, and leverage it to support their career success. I am still surprised by how many
people think they don't even have one.
So what does your brand say about you? What do you want it to say? Building a successful
personal brand starts with knowing yourself. Here are my top five tips for creating your
personal brand and enhancing it so you can achieve your dream level of success (whatever
that looks like for you).
1. Be authentic
Many branding experts will tell you how to shape and craft your personal image to within an
inch or your life. Think about politicians who are melded and moulded until they are exactly
what they believe their constituents want them to be. This may work in politics (a point no
doubt we could argue on) but I have rarely seen this work as a sustainable career strategy --
or certainly not for anyone who actually wants to be happy at work.
You need to develop your personal brand in light of who you actually are. Look at your
strengths, your likes, where you shine, how you like to dress etc. When you strip away the
mask, who are you really, and how can you show up in a way that allows your true authentic
self to show through? That is the essence of your personal brand, and the only essence that
you want to build on. Fake it till you make it is not something you want to project when we
are talking about your brand.
2. Make sure you can 'be you' where you work
Once you have worked out who you really are and therefore what your personal brand
should be, the next step is how you bring your full and authentic self to work everyday in a
way you can flourish. If you feel confined, constrained and like you just don't fit with how
you are expected to show up in your work, then here is a hint -- you may be in the wrong
job. So have a think about your passion, purpose and reason for being, and see where it
leads you. You may need to make a change to truly thrive at work.
3. Be known for something
To really shine, you need be clear on who you are, what you want, and you need to harness
and build your skills and knowledge. The key is to not only build them, but to become
known for them, in a way that differentiates you from everyone else. It's not just enough
that you know what you know -- others have to know that you know it. This is how you
become a thought leader or an expert. And remember to be specific. If you think you can be
known for everything, you run the risk of being known for nothing at all. Get clarity, build
your deep expertise, and then you can become known for it.
4. Get your behavior in check
Many of the things that are critical to building your brand are not about knowledge, they
aren't about how you look, and they aren't about how firm your handshake is (but yes, firm
is always best). A huge chunk of being well regarded is actually about behaviors. I cannot
stress this strongly enough. What you are known for is as much about how you do what you
do, as it is about what you actually do. So think about things like being kind, being
respectful, showing up on time, listening to others and not being a gossip. Behaviors matter
-- big time. So focus on mastering yours.
5. Build and own your personal brand online
How you show up online is just as important (or maybe even more important these days)
than how you show up in person. It can literally make or break you, in terms of others'
perception and your reputation. If you haven't done a Google search on yourself recently,
then you need to do one. Knowing what is out there on the web when people are looking for
you, whether it is a future employer, a new manager or a client, is critical to managing your
brand. Think about your social media presence, your personal website or blog, how and
where you comment online, then look at what you are saying and how people are
responding.
You have a personal brand whether you like it or not. Think about how you show up, how
others perceive you, what you know and who knows it, and what your online profile says
about you. With all that in mind, you will have gone a long way in building a brand that
works for you.
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Tuesday, January 26, 2016
Thursday, January 21, 2016
A New Post
It has been a while since I have written here. At the end of
last year my Principal asked me to become the teacher librarian at my school.
At first I said no. Not because I am not qualified or because I couldn't do the
job but because he was removing the current teacher librarian from the
position. I felt it was a wrong move. The teacher librarian was good at what
she did. The principal explained that he saw the library becoming more
technical and research based and felt she did not meet that criteria. I still
said no and suggested that he keep her. He replied with she was no longer going
to be in the library even if I refused. I thought about it for a minute and
decided in that case it would be a good fit.
So far it has been crazy. They renovated the library over
the summer. When all the books came back into the library I decided to do a
good weed. So good that over 3000 books were deleted from the system. I
rearranged and reorganized. There is still a ways to go but I am moving
forward.
SOLE is still with me. I still teach my social studies and
science class using SOLE and Individual research. Presentations are still
happening. I get to work with a wider variety of kids. One class of gifted kids
far surpassed my expectations with their research and presentations.
Anyway, I have decided to return to my blog. Thanks for following me.
Bill
Tuesday, December 9, 2014
How Adults Talk To Children.
Below
are some observations I have made about how adults talk to children. We can all
do better. We need to work to improve it. Some people will be thinking , "I already do these things." That may well be true but even as I work to apply these concepts daily I discover little things that I do are not helpful. Be careful and be aware is a good motto.
Talk
to children as you would talk to adults. They are a person the same as you.
When you talk to an adult as an equal they see that you are treating them with
respect and as a result they learn to trust you. They gain confidence from the
interaction and experience growth. Does this mean you stop being the adult? No.
Children will still need the guidance and support but when treated as equals
they don’t have to long to be older. They already are.
When
a situation arises with a child that bothers you stop and think: How would I
deal with this if it was an adult? Choose your words carefully. Anger is often
misused in these situations. Instead we need to look at the situation and
assess the damage. The child most likely feels guilty about it. Talk to them
respectfully will restore their confidence and help them to see that what they
did was wrong but they are capable of fixing it. If objects are broken, they
can be replaced. Breaking a child is far more damaging than anything you own.
Communicate
acceptance of the child and their ideas. Children like to ask questions. Through
these questions they gain an understanding of the world. This is the perfect
place to open communication and build your relationship. Develop and refine
their questions and then have them find an answer. Discuss the answer. You will
build their confidence at the same time as you build your relationship.
Talk
with children not at them. As adults we have a tendency to talk down to them.
We have a tendency to talk from an authority position, not as an equal. When we
talk with them we are building self esteem and creating great learning moments
for them. When we talk at them they tend to not listen and shut dot down. This
leads to further disconnect.
Poor
communication skills are the greatest disservice we do to children. When we do
not take the time to communicate with them effectively they instinctively turn
off what we have to say because it isn’t of value to them. This leads to the
constant conflict and bickering that often permeates the world around
teenagers. They become uncomfortable and wary because they are unsure of their
world, how to react and demonstrate appropriate behaviour. If we are working to
build communication in a positive way they respond more favourably.
We
need to demonstrate a positive world to our kids. It is the first step towards building
a better world. All kids need to be in this better place.
Monday, December 8, 2014
Where is the Revolution in Education? response
Last
week in my blog I posted an article on, Where is The Revolution In Education?
A
reader posted it on his Facebook site looking for discussion. One reader wrote
back:
I wrote:
==We need to build a
positive culture that encourages students to become lifelong learners. It is
the job of both parents and teachers to do this. ==
The responder wrote:
``People are born lifelong learners. They know how to learn and can play a crucial, if not lead, role in building a positive culture. I don't like how the author is focusing on young people needing adults for learning and positive culture to exist.``
When
this was first shared with me I was of mixed reaction. The first was she is
absolutely correct. Children are lifelong learners from birth. The second was
that her knowledge of the implications of lifelong learning was a bit skewed.
Lifelong learning is indeed something every child is born
with. However the things that get in the way of this lifelong learning often
obscure or discourage children from following up on their ideas and dreams. This
discouragement comes from the power the adults exercise over the children. This
power is in the words the adults choose and the things they say to children.
Every day I watch adults speak to children in ways they would never speak to
other adults. Condescension, sarcasm, and arguing: in essence doing things that
sow doubt and mistrust are happening every day. Adults rarely recognize they do
this. It has become so pervasive that it is not given a second thought. All
these things take a bite out of lifelong learning. All send a message that the thoughts
and feelings of children are not valuable.
Children will be lifelong learners as long as those who are
in supporting roles are encouraging children with positive feedback in a non-threatening
way. The children are capable of exponential growth under the right conditions.
Adults play a vital role in this. We all need to do our part to encourage this growth.
Are you doing your part?
Friday, December 5, 2014
Finding Self Esteem in Children
Finding Self Esteem in Children
By Bill Ferguson
In my early years as a teacher I
viewed children mainly as my teachers did when I went to school. They were to
sit in rows, listen attentively, work hard and be polite. It worked to some
degree. After the first couple of years
I noticed a couple of things. The first was that it was easier to teach those
children who desired to learn no matter what level they were at in their
learning. Weak or strong students who wanted to learn made learning and teaching
fun. I asked myself what was it that made those weak students so motivated to
learn. As I watched and listened some of it was their home environment and in
some it was inquisitiveness. I looked at those who did not desire to learn.
Again some had a poor home environment, but mostly it was the topics they were
being taught and the way it was done. It held no interest to them. Many liked
to work with their hands and build things. These fuelled their imaginations. There
was also a lack of self-esteem that was involved with these students when it
came to classroom work.
The second was that my teaching
style and expectations were out of line with what was happening in the rest of
the student’s lives. It was my realization that student conversations held far
more interest for them than what I had to teach them. I also saw that their discussions were about
educational things that challenged their imagination. This made for amazing
discussions that went further than anything I could have taught them. They reached
conclusions and saw cause and effect for more efficiently than if I had them
draw it out of a story. These discussions also created a personal context
between the students and me leading to greater trust. It allowed me to guide
them rather than push them into places they did not want to go but would on
their own.
While I reached the same
conclusions as Dr. Sugata Mitra and his experiments with SOLE, Self-Organized
Learning Environments, it took his work to send it home to me. The students
need to come first and follow their interests. As a teacher it is my duty to
make sure the curriculum is taught. It is also my duty to educate students in
higher level thinking skills. In order to do both I had to come up with a way
to do both because the traditional way did not work.
As a teacher I realized that lack
of self-esteem was the number one issue in building the educational career of
everyone in my class. Student lack of self-esteem is far more prevalent than
one would realize. It doesn’t matter the student, self-esteem is the issue.
Good students have self-esteem issues that rely on whether they do well or not
on assignments or tests. There are social issues. Weak students know they
cannot compete and feel disillusioned. Their learning disabilities have put
them behind their classmates and they feel they can never catch up.
This lack of self-esteem comes
from a number of sources both inside and outside the classroom. As adults while
we think we are doing our best to raise our children the fact of the matter is
that we often make poor word and sentence choices that are interpreted
differently by children than we intend. We often cut off their enthusiasm;
sometimes inadvertently as it crops up at inopportune times and often advertently
because we are doing something that could be disturbed but choose to place it
first over the child’s needs..
How to build self-esteem became
the question that needed to be answered. I turned to books and the internet but
the suggestions were too many and with no agreement. The one thing I have
discovered is that as adults we have to give up the notion of being in control.
We are only in control because someone allows us to be in control or in charge.
The fact is when we enforce our control we are undermining the children’s
efforts to being taken seriously in the world. Control is about dominance not
about equal and fair treatment. When we let go of control and accept everyone’s
ideas as being worthy of discussion it is a win-win situation. Children gain
trust and feel valued. Adults look good in kid’s eyes. This works in school as
well. Yes there are times when as an adult we have to pull rank but we also
need to explain why we did it so they understand that aspect of it.
What does this all mean? As
adults we are doing a poor job of communicating with our children. Each and
every one of us sends mixed messages through the words we choose and the
sentences we say. Children need far more positive than in order to grow and
lead fulfilling lives. We need to become the people we think we are instead of
the people we are. Stay positive and your kids will prosper.
Where Is The Revolution In Education?
Where Is The
Revolution In Education?
By Bill Ferguson
In Ontario, where I live, we have seen the spelling
revolution (toss all the spelling books out because they are irrelevant), the
common sense revolution (where they ripped apart the very fabric of education)
the computer/technology revolution, the child centred revolution, the themed
revolution, the testing is right revolution, the taxpayers revolution and many
more revolutions in education. We have all seen them. They were all meant to
cure a problem that was perceived to put education at a disadvantage
endangering the education of our students and children. The problem with them all is that they were
all conceived by adults who did not look at learning through the eyes of
children. They all have underestimated the capability of children to learn
using the tool they have been given to do it with, the brain.
The brain is the oldest tool that humans have to use. It has
been the most constant thing in every year humans have walked the earth. Given free
reign it has developed some of the most miraculous things man has ever seen.
Children have the same minds as adults. Yes they don’t have the knowledge in
detail that experience brings but that doesn’t mean they can’t draw conclusions
and see cause and effect and deliver results based on what their mind thinks.
Yet adults have for centuries seen children as being inferior objects when it
comes to the using of their brain. Adults have dominated and imposed their will
on children forcing children to see themselves as being substandard people who
will get it when they get older. This is where the revolution in education
really is. Adults must change how they view children.
Without this change in the way adults view children education
cannot change. Adults have to see children as equals in learning and encourage their
development through asking questions and then discovering answers. This environment,
phrased in positive words and sentiments, allows the children to grow in ways
that an educational system and curriculum could not provide for them. The
problem is that the adults have to change from a “me first” and value of objects
way of looking at things to a children first, positive atmosphere, in a supportive
environment. When a child is running in the house or playing and breaks an
object, adults often focus on “Look what you have done!” meaning they value the
object over their child. By putting the child first either the adult would not
have bought the object or reinforce the fact that some activities should be
taking place in other environments. We have so infused negativity into our
language that we do not see the damage that is being done. Everything we do
impacts a child’s growth.
In essence we need to build a positive culture that
encourages students to become lifelong learners. It is the job of both parents
and teachers to do this. This positive environment will reach children far more
meaningfully than todays present system does. When we tap into the self-interests
of children they have a greater desire to learn and become lifelong learners.
They develop a desire to ask questions and pursue answers when they know they
are supported and valued when doing this.
The Revolution in Education is in the hands of adults in how
they look at and treat children. Are the adults up to the task?
Tuesday, December 2, 2014
Kickstarter help.
Below is the essence of the Kickstarter program we are hoping to roll out shortly. I have included the essence of that we are doing and looking for feedback on it. You can either reply here or email me directly. I am especially interested in the rewards for investing with us. Is it too much? Not enough?
Thanks for your help
Bill
Using Self Organized Learning Environments and The Latest in Technology To Enrich the Lives of Children.
Goals:
To develop the interests and abilities of all children through using the latest technologies.
To develop a platform from which all children can work together to research and share information.
To have children from all walks of life and anywhere in the world researching to help make the world a better place
To develop a method for children to be compensated for their research.
Imagine children, abled and disabled, from anywhere in the world working together to create community and enrich lives.
Imagine children researching and sharing information based on their interests leading to improved reading and comprehension levels through using technology and higher level thinking skills.
Imagine children working together to research and reach positive conclusions that help make this world a better place.
What we propose to do
Build a SOLE powered Google search engine.
To build an interface where children can share their research
To build a model for children to research issues of ecological impact for consumers
To provide a place of involvement for all children regardless of their abilities
Kickstarter rewards
The question is are these too much? Not enough?
Is the spread too wide? Any thoughts
What gifts do we offer on Kick starter
$5 - $50 wrist bands to demonstrate they are part of the cause
$100 really cool T Shirts
$1000 chromebook or tablet
over $5000 Emotive headset
so many free searches..
supported G apps accounts
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