Control, the essence of human nature. It is the point in which all problems start. When we try to control an object or situation we all experience the outcome that says, ``It didn`t work out the way we wanted it to. `` Too often this is the case and we feel disappointed. Really though what we need to do is to let it go, have no expectations, and accept what it brings in a positive light. You will feel better, have less stress and be happier. There is success in everything but you have to see it that way in order for it to happen. Banish the negative and follow the light to happiness.